Please a Woman Completely

Men are often expected to know just what to do to arouse their partner. But men are not born with innate knowledge of how to show a woman a good time!

Most men learn through trial and error, or have the good fortune to meet a woman who tells them what they enjoy. Here are some ideas to improve your ability at pleasing your partner.

Ask them what they like!
It's amazing how many couples never talk about sex. Try asking what she enjoyed in the warm afterglow after lovemaking, or when you are cuddling up on a quiet evening at home.

Caress and Touch
Most women like to be caressed and touched all over their bodies. You may want to concentrate on her breasts or genitals, but other good places to caress are the back of the neck, crook of the arms, outer and inner thighs and small of the back. Use your lips to kiss her body all over.

Massage
Offer a 'non-sexual' massage. You will learn which places she really likes to be touched.

Use Compliments
Compliment her on the parts of her body you really like. Use romantic language and tell her how much she means to you.

Take your time
Never expect your partner to go from 0 to 90 in thirty seconds! You may have been thinking about sex all day, but she could have had a terrible day when sex was the last thing on her mind.

Be sensitive to her mood. Offer to take some of the strain of the day away by cooking an evening meal and you may find that her sexual interest returns.