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Hot male studs generally pick up ten times more girls that an ordinary guy. So let's see what a hot male stud knows about meeting girls & women that most guys don't...

Meeting women can be tough -- no man will deny that. Sometimes it can even get discouraging, especially if you weren't endowed with the swaggering coolness of a player or the looks of an A-list movie star.

But those are hardly reasons to get disheartened. Armed with a few pointers, getting back on the dating scene can be a cinch. So if you find yourself in a dating rut and can't seem to get your act together for a rendezvous, here are ways to improve your game and start filling up your little black book again.

Number 10 - Go out with friends
There are more ways of scoring dates when you head out with an entourage. Your friends have a precious network of potential dream ladies there for the taking. Don't hesitate to join your pals when they go out. You might end up being introduced to friends of friends that might be of interest to you.

When you meet a woman through a friend, your work is automatically cut in half, for you already share something in common with her: your mutual acquaintance. This saves you some serious effort in coming up with topics of conversation.


Number 9 - Use online dating services
Once objects of derision only used by the desperate and homely, dating websites have gone mainstream, and enjoy greater popularity than singles bars. Just surf through any number of profiles, and you will come across some very interesting and attractive single women. Online dating is good for the busy man who simply doesn't have the time and patience to mingle at bars, or has grown tired of the same old routine. It also offers the convenience that people expect these days. You can end the contact anytime you want, or keep it going at your own pace.


Number 8 - Talk to many women
Your chances of winning the lottery improve drastically when you buy a ticket. It improves even more when you buy several. It's the same with dating. The more women you talk to, the more likely you are to score a date with one.

But gambling on numbers does more for you than perk up your odds in the lottery of love. When you talk to many women, you eventually become comfortable approaching them. Your macking skills sharpen, and you become more receptive to her buying signals. With effort, the mystery of women will slowly dissipate, taking with it your self-doubts. Practice makes perfect, and dating is no exception.


Number 7 - Be an interesting conversationalist
Once you catch a woman's attention, you have to keep it aloft. Keep a few good stories handy and plug them in at the right moments. Since most small talk centers on movies, music and other topics of popular interest, keep an eye on current trends. Watch the news, read magazines, learn from conversations with other people, and travel a bit.

And remember that people love to talk about themselves. Be sure to ask open-ended questions to keep her chatting all night, with minimal effort on your part.


Number 6 - Keep an open mind
You're out shopping for a new dress shirt. You find one you like and try it on. It doesn't fit, and the store doesn't carry your size. Do you run out of the store, despairing that you'll never find another shirt? Right. It's the same with dating; repeated failures can get discouraging, but it's important to keep doors open and give yourself many chances.

It also means giving women a chance. If a date doesn't go splendidly on the first try, give it another shot. Many factors could have been at work: nervousness, noise, bad location. Don't convince yourself that you're not interested right away, and don't dismiss women without a valid reason. You could be rejecting a princess who just needs a little coaxing from her shell.


Number 5 - Be comfortable with yourself
It's an undisputed law of dating: women seek men with high self-confidence. Self-assurance gives a man an aura of desirability that ladies can't resist. It not only shows that he has many qualities, but also that he recognizes them.

Raising your confidence levels is perhaps one of the toughest things to do, but its effects can be seen everywhere in your life, from dating and business to sports. It's a basic formula: recognize that you have qualities that women seek. It takes time, but once you become confident, the world will be yours.


Number 4 - Look your best
A man who takes care of his image is one who takes care of other things as well. That said, go to the gym, shrink that gut and broaden your shoulders and chest. Dress well.

If you have the fashion sense of mildew, then get a stylish buddy to suit you up. Shower, smell good, shave, and trim those nose hairs. And don't forget to smile. A lot. Women will be more eager to talk to you if you look friendly and approachable. So save the tough guy sneer for the pool table, and you will impress women at every opportunity.

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Number 3 - Don't be desperate or too eager
No one likes a suck-up, especially not women who can smell desperation from across the room. Being pathetic will only hurt your chances. It's your self-assurance that will win in the end. Know your worth and use that tool. Let a woman sense that you can do very well without her, and that it's in her best interest to keep you around.

Instead, be a challenge. When you show a woman that you're not interested right away, she'll try extra hard to keep your attention. Don't tell her too much about yourself; let her do most of the talking. You'll seem more mysterious and trim down your chances of saying something you'll regret. Remain enigmatic and women will rush to try and crack your secret.


Number 2 - Be a gentleman
It's time to prove the cynics wrong and show that the gentleman is not a dying breed. Being a gentleman will set you apart from other men, and your chivalry, no matter how small, will be remembered. And oh, word will get around.

A gentleman respects women. He shows interest in them by listening to them and respecting their views (which does not mean agreeing with them, mind you). A gentleman opens her door and helps her put on her jacket. He offers to pay the bill and walks her to her door. When women see that you want more than just sex from them, they'll be that much more enchanted.


Number 1 - Learn to size women up
This is a tricky one, but essentially means observing a woman to gauge her personality. Taking a good look at her clothes, her mannerisms and her speech patterns can tell you a lot about what kind of a person she is. This will let you customize your "approach" to her so she'll be more receptive to your presence because you can't expect to impress a sex vixen the same way you would a bookworm.

So study her. Does she seem self-assured or does she try to disappear into the corner? Is she dressed provocatively or conservatively? Is she well-spoken or does she have trouble completing a sentence with fewer than ten "ums" and "likes"? If she's the artsy type, talk about art. If she's intellectual, turn on your smart mojo. If she exudes sexuality, then keep the conversation provocative. You get the idea. No two women are the same. Know how to contend with each one.


The Numbers work for You
So many things that seem intimidating are, in reality, quite simple. It is our nagging self-doubts and unrealistic expectations that make them so tortuous. Dating is one of them.

If you're having a tough time scoring phone numbers, it might help to take a step back and see where you're going wrong. It could be something you've never noticed before. Take these 10 points to heart and, with persistence, your luck will change... fast.